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What does "썸" mean?sseom

The talking stage — something is happening but you are not dating.

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🇰🇷 Korean
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Friends & informal

How it's actually used

The entire grey zone before a relationship gets one short noun. You 타다 (ride) a 썸 — 썸 타는 중 means "we’re in that stage". It is the engine of roughly every romance drama plot.

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Where it comes from

Clipped from the English "something". Korean needed a noun for the in-between and borrowed one.

Before you say it

Casual and gossipy. Perfect with friends, odd in front of family.

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